Orders of love
Bert Hellinger came up with the concept of “orders of love”. He suggests that love can flow more freely in a family when the orders of love are respected. These are certain laws that can be applied to a family system. Why love needs…
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50 shades of psychology – personality analysis of Anastasia Steel
The movie “Fifty Shades of Grey” became a blockbuster. Hardly anyone realizes that the film trilogy depicts serious personality disorders of the two main heroes – Christian Grey and Anastasia Steel. Let me invite you to the first article of…
Does unconditional love create healthy relationships?
Unconditional love is a very noble idea. It means that we respect the other person the way he or she is, with no conditions and no expectations of receiving anything in return. The question, however, is – does unconditional love…
Strong woman looking for love
Are you a strong woman looking for love? You have a good job, a nice apartment, you’re bright and super-intelligent but there’s no man around you? If you answer yes to this question, then this article is for you. Strong…
I married the wrong person. What to do?
People marry for all the possible reasons. But one of the greatest is love. But what if I married the wrong person? After a rosy dating period of two years, John married Nicole, to her great happiness. She liked everything…
Single mothers and excluded fathers
There is a certain dynamic played out in contemporary society and it is called single mothers and excluded fathers. I have noticed that there are mothers who voluntarily exclude fathers from their child’s life. There are many different life situations…
Family constellations for beginners
What are family constellations for beginners? What exactly is this method about? That’s always a tough question to explain but let me tell you a bit about it. It didn’t start within you. Family constellations are about healing the relationships…
My boss doesn’t give me a raise
My boss doesn’t give me a raise although I work hard. I bet you know this. Have you ever heard about the Tiara Syndrome? It’s a special psychological term used to describe the belief that if you do everything properly,…
Did you give too much and the man left you?
Many women contact me and tell me “I gave him everything, I was so good to him, and then he left me. Why did this happen? What’s wrong with me?“. If you overserve and agree for crumbles of love, crumbles…
Is love enough to build a happy relationship?
I met Martha at a party in Kaufleuten club in Zurich on a rainy Saturday evening. We had a ‘girls talk’ over a White Russian. She was in a tough relationship which brought lots of troubles and worries. She said:…
A good relationship – why don’t you have it yet?
When I ask people how they met they start telling me that the time stood still, and they immediately knew that was ‘it’. Love at first sight. However, it was soon gone. A good relationship – learn why don’t you…
Being yourself is not easy. Why?
Being yourself is not easy, because sometimes we‘re brought up to be someone else, someone, who has to be ‘this or that’. How often did you hear from your parents that you look like your grandfather or that you took…
What is art therapy?
When we were kids, art time was often the best part of grammar school. Who didn’t enjoy coloring, drawing, and painting? It was fun, relaxing, and you got a wonderful euphoric feeling from creating something you made with your own…
No day is more important than today
Rainy autumn day. Monica sat down on the couch after coming back from work. A pack of Lays Chips of fromage taste was lying near on the coffee table. She said to herself: “Well, I worked hard today in a…
What would you tell to your 10-year-old self?
1. Life is a game Aleksandra. It’s neither a Moroccan bazaar nor an ascetic cave. If you wanna play good learn the rules of the game called Life. 2. Love yourself because you are beautiful the way you are. Don’t…