When a dream job means less money
“I got a dream job offer, but I will earn less. Should I accept it?” What to do when a dream job means less money? Maybe you are also caught between the devil and the deep blue see. So, you…
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What is the victim mentality?
Chances are, you have shared your office with someone who as soon as arrives to work starts complaining about everything. Maybe the bus was late. Maybe the coffee stained a new shirt. A series of dramas that never end. What…
Overplanned in your free time?
Dominic worked a lot. After work he hit the local gym, worked out, picked some chicken sandwich with guacamole from the supermarket, hurrying up because in Switzerland they close at 21:00. Do you feel overplanned in your free time, like…
I deserve better
Sometimes you are in a hurting and painful relationship but you still decide to stay. You have no courage to leave this person out of fear. Fear of being alone, fear of uncomfortable feelings, fear of allowing yourself for something…
5 Tinder tricks that men use
Do you have a Tinder account? Lucky you! It is worthwhile to have it for some observation regarding how men behave. Tinder is a great tool for people-watching without leaving your home or your bed. Many ask the million-dollar question…
Being yourself is not easy. Why?
Being yourself is not easy, because sometimes we‘re brought up to be someone else, someone, who has to be ‘this or that’. How often did you hear from your parents that you look like your grandfather or that you took…
Courage in life. How to be corageous?
Courage in life is something everyone is talking about. Oh yeah, you know it all. Don’t you? Maybe you heard it a thousand times already. But you failed to try it on yourself. Courage in life is closely connected to…
The Art of Happiness
Do you know how your thoughts drift you away from your fulfilled and happy life? Maybe you always thought that happiness is butterfly which is always slipping through your fingertips? I’m not going to give you a definition of what…
What is art therapy?
When we were kids, art time was often the best part of grammar school. Who didn’t enjoy coloring, drawing, and painting? It was fun, relaxing, and you got a wonderful euphoric feeling from creating something you made with your own…
Why your dreams don’t come true?
Robert had one big dream. To wake up and to see that finally everything’s alright. That he has a good job, a steady income, a wonderful girlfriend and friends, who call him a “viking” instead of a “loser”. He’s been…
Don’t give up so fast. Find your magic cone.
Do you know these happy people, always smiling and satisfied with their lives? When you pass them by you think they must have won a lottery or received a pay rise. The truth is, a happy and contented person who…
Perfect Christmas gift that no money can buy.
Whenever I hear “Last Christmas” by Wham at my gym (and believe me, they play it every time I go there) I ponder and wonder about the tons of people doing the evening Christmas shopping, searching for presents for their…
Beauty and the Beast. What makes you a man or a woman?
Is Nurture more important than Nature? Is sex a social construct? You come to this world either as a man or as a woman. A biological phenomenon that has been active since the creation of mankind. What if, let’s say,…
Do you judge people by their looks? Three reasons you should.
“Don’t judge a book by its cover”. This saying is quite well ingrained in our brain. However, we do exactly the opposite, as we are steered by our biology. We judge men who pass us by on the street, we…
The crisis of the third date. Why we fail at relationships?
Why it is so difficult for us to be with someone? Why so often we fail at relationships? The contemporary times are not the times of our grandparents, when all was kept simple. Men were competing for women and the…